Hair product help easy 10 Points?

So i have naturally wavy hair. i would like to know the best mousse or sprays that will define my curls without making my hair hard or damaging my hair. right now i have been using herbal essences curl boosting mousse in totally twisted. i also have tousle me softly mousse by herbal essences. i like the tousle me softly mousse cause it doesnt make my hair hard but i like the totally twisted cause it defines my curls. is there a product out there that can do both????