Hair= SUPER frizzy and curly. Me= Help! What do I put in it that will give me the "tousled" look?

Okay, my hair is really frizzy and curly. I want the "tousled" look, so that it's not REALLY curly, but I don't want to straighten it. I need a hair care product that will help me, it also needs to be cheap and something that will actually work...